2009-03-20(Fri)

Divorce can only blame my husband is too strong sexual desire

In 1992, ME and Lin introduced Know, Love a year to get married. Give him my honest first impression is, first told me to meet him on the origin of rural, relatively poor family, worried that I will disdain him. I like the simple and honest man honest, but many a layer of his good opinion, and Lam, who as a soldier, build a very robust, so I feel very insecure.

Very sweet days of love, Lin Qiang, after demobilization when assigned to a primary school PE teacher, leisure job comparison, he came to pick me after work every day. Our time together, sometimes referred to him, but naturally I am a traditional person, hope to be able to put their wedding night to give him complete. Lam, who respect my opinion, never forced me, I am glad to find a reliable man.

Can we get married later, Lim called for every day and I have sex, but every day more than once, I think perhaps people are newly married this way, this is me love him the performance of it, so I am also happy to accept it. Honeymoon so we昏天暗地to have sex, sometimes I think too much, but the total Lin Qiang said that he love me too, me too necessary. I think as a wife's obligation to give her husband met, or try to obey him so.

My job often required to perform night work上半夜on到凌晨两点, two points up from midnight to 8:00 am. For safety considerations, before marriage and my sister the same units, as long as they work at night and sleep in the unit room. After they married, Lin Qiang下夜班each night shifts or have to transfer in all weathers, all admire and sisters said: "Wah sister, very good luck to you, husband hurt you so." I有苦说不出.

Usually at home, every night asked Lin to experience their sexuality, not sparing逢到work at night, two points off me at night, so tired already speechless, could be back after he first met him but also can sleep; If it is the middle of the night to night shifts, have done before they take my unit go. I have one night a night to meet him I put only one-year-old son threw many at home, can not find his son after the father mother woke up, scared out of his wits, crying mess. Go back and see my poor child looked like a DC distressed tears.

At noon every day he came to pick me off, go home, he has already put the food ready, waiting for me after eating rice and his wife have been living, all year long, have made so much. I have protested, but Lim said that if I can not meet him, he would go outside to find another woman. In order to maintain family harmony, I reluctantly according to him. To tell the truth, apart from this point to allow Lin Qiang, I can not accept outside, and the rest is really impeccable, dedication of children, household chores at home are also all-inclusive, and apart from this matter are in accordance with my other. I usually go home下了班do not do anything, He also rushing meal dishes, I would also look at household chores to do, he would have grabbed the hands of my live, said: "Do not dry, you put energy retention. "I listened to this, is dumbfounding.

Time periods have to give. Is there any way that he always put the first day of the next day could not help, and want to hurry on. I said the first trimester of pregnancy, what do not agree, he would solve their own, usually lying in bed masturbating in front of my face, I feel very embarrassed, but he Do not care. Sometimes repeatedly asked me to help him in other ways to solve, I watch him憋得hard for me to help him occasionally. Pregnant after three months, he could not wait to take on married life. One month before giving birth to a child, he has to, I can give. Marry all these years, my flow three times, the doctor confessed flow within one month after the Say not to the same room may be the fastest one in my crowd after the third day on the死缠烂打begged him and under him with the room.

Are you afraid of an impact on the body? Of course they were scared, but there is any way, I do not agree with one, he would instead look for a woman to threaten me. The fourth year of our marriage, he really has had a affair, I also kept in the dark beginning, the leadership of his unit told me, and I filed for divorce, he knelt down to look at for my children to forgive him on the sub - . At that time, small children before the age of two, finally, I will be a softie.

Some will feel that this is not normal? Certainly you, at first I thought him This is young, good physical strength, but are more than ten years of marriage, his point did not reduce sexual desire. Every day more than once want, but will never be tired of the time. Me on the point of death, when the young can cope with, and now 40 years old and not so true and strong sexuality.上一天班usually enough of a tired, go home even if do not have to do any household chores do not want to do that thing every day. Coupled with a big age slowly, the following are also feeling more and more do, to experience their sexuality, when he co-ordination and Happiness, however, I feel pain, there was no pleasure at all. I am also a little numb over time, and he him to do, and I sleep me, there is true even fell asleep several times, he was very unhappy that I am not a woman, unable to meet their own husband.

I also mentioned him or go look at the hospital, he refused to die, saying that their own bodies good, no problem, but also the other hand are性冷淡me. I feel like性冷淡? Me want to not let me. Me too from rural areas, are also considered a very good physique, but like him I really can not stand the practice, often done临睡前once to the middle of the night he woke me up again, or even two or three times the fundamental sleep well at night the next day had to go to work.

Perhaps more than a year ago, I found him the number of requests have sex less than before, perhaps two or three times a week, beginning my heart also feel pleased but not show, thinking probably true because older, sexual desire is not so stronger. Who knows one day there is a woman called me, my mouth opening question: "you are not a husband not so necessary to you?" I was wondering how this kind of thing outsiders will know that the woman went on to say, "That is because he find me here at the meet, you have been unable to meet him. "Yes, I understand how this matter.

I know that it was relatively calm after thought or two in the end走不到people together, and so made up his mind to divorce him. Even though he has repeatedly begged, I determined. I think that it is also a relief to me.

Now a Living While people with children encounter many difficulties, but the true heart relaxed a lot of marriages also have lack of hope? Hold! Why not hope? I still hope to get a really nice person to me good to have下半生.

The occurrence of eroticism was very low, in the general population, about 1% (including both male and female), which is mainly expressed in the frequent and strong demand, every day can have a number of requirements (including sexual intercourse), even to the non-avoidance the degree of affinity or frequent replacement of sexual partners. This degree of eroticism manifested as a form of forced sexual needs, sexual hyperfunction affected the health of the individual as well as interpersonal relationships, they do not consider any situational constraints and norms, when the demands are not met哭骂noisy when engaged in have exhausted the other side, very upset.

After the series: what is normal sexual desire? What eroticism or Low? Should not alone the frequency of sex life to determine how many. Since each person's environment, cognitive, psychological, interpersonal relationships exist all sorts of great differences in the strength of sexual desire so very different, and sometimes there is different. Only when the sexual tension is too high and You'll be tempted, which produce a series of emotional, behavioral and sexual object change only be regarded as abnormal.

Lin Qiang be regarded as eroticism, and now also can not completely be left open, because further on lack of clinical laboratory and psychological diagnosis. But the eroticism associated with many physical organic pathological changes, including endocrine disorders and psychological factors, and should therefore be to do a comprehensive physical examination, especially the sex hormones of inspection, and to take appropriate therapeutic measures.

When ordinary people go beyond this kind of sexual situation too strong, we should actively go to the hospital of sexual medicine for men or gynecology clinic. Since, over-exuberant or sexual desire does not mean that hyperthyroidism is not only physically strong, and often are signals of disease.

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